Points to ponder

Read this some time ago in Daphne Iking's blog. I find it so meaningful that I can't help but copy it down. Spend some time to digest it, pals!

I Believe...

That just because two people argue,
It doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

That you can keep going long after you think you can't.

That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

That my best friend and I, can do anything, or nothing and have the best time.

That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, we are responsible for who we become.

That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.

That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.


I believe that...

'The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything.

P.S. Hope you'll feel the same way as I do. Hugs.

Excuse moi

I lost my train of thoughts at the very moment when I pressed the "New Post" button. Damn. Things always appear paradoxical. Well, at least now I know. At least now I realised how chaotic the community is, regardless of how peaceful it appears to be. Just as sardonic as Wisteria Lane, I thought. "All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts...". Mr. Shakespear does get it right sometimes, did he not. *Grin*

Well, at least I know. Hardwork don't usually get paid off. No matter how hard I've tried. You might think that I didn't. I know, I know I'm being too sentimental lately. Though I tried hard not to be one. 'Cause I know this makes my blog much less appealing than the ones with juicier gossips. I know, I know. But I just can't help it.

I know, i know this post is putting you to sleep. I know, cause I'm bored by my boring style of writing too. But bear with me, will you? 'Cause now I'll let you know that I'm dragging my post this far to hide away from the reality. 'Cause I'm capable of finding thousands of excuses not to start reading those irksome journals. Now you know, now you know...

Daily ritual

Was blog-hopping and came across this:

Obsession-compulsive disorder, or rather, characterised by 6R's:

Recurrent intrusive thoughts

Repetitive distressing thoughts

Recognized as own thoughts

Recognized as silly thoughts

Resisted by failed
Restricted one's daily activities

Compulsions are acts done to neutralize the obsessions, reduce anxiety & distress. For example, Obsessions of Contamination, hence compulsion by frequent handwashing.

Hmm. I suppose this is the reason why I have been indulging in nostalgia.

I'm gay

I'm happy that I bought a cowl neck jumper.

I'm happy that I also bought a cream-coloured scarf.

I'm happy that I'm happy.

I'm delighted because of the spontaneity.

I'm delighted because I found the long-lost confidence.

I'm delighted because I no longer care what the fcuk do you think of me.

I'm elated 'cause baby left me a hilarious video.

I'm elated as I unveil your past.

I'm elated eventhough I have only written three friggin' sentences in my intro.

I'm ecstatic about tomorrow's TGIF session.

I'm ecstatic 'cause it feels like Saturday today.

I'm ecstatic out of nothing.

I'm lovin' the way I spend my money.

I guess it's the aftertaste of retail therapy.

The Voice Within

Nobody wants to be lonely,
Just like me in the past,
Who had been well greeted by your warmth of welcome.

The day you turned your back on me,
And walked away from where I stood,
Till I barely see your figure,
Tears been streaming down.
Darkness sets in silently,
Sorrow seeps in,
As if it were the doom.

The warmth that I never see in your eyes anymore,
Acts that break my heart,
Words that bring me down,
Played in my head like a mantra.

Negative thoughts multiply rapidly,
Fail to keep my head cool,
For sorrow saps one's strength,
I longed for a companion,
but nobody came to rescue,
And it dawned on me that
the world wouldn't stop for my grief.

Since then,
I chose to walk alone,
despite the fact that I,
still live in the shadow of your memories.